I see you getting caught up in seeing only one side..
we've have heard Antler's side.. I understand WHY he didn't pay (as you have pointed out)... I wouldn't have paid either based on what his lawyers gave for advice.
HOWEVER it's not JUST about antlers.
It's also about HER perspective. He stated he didn't understand where her anger was coming from.
You asked "Why didn't she write or call??"
Our lawyers tell us (& the advice here) is DO NOT talk the D stuff directly to the ex spouse.. deal only with the lawyers. Did she? who knows..
did her lawyer drop the ball on it? who knows...
maybe to her she was giving him ample opportunity to show his changes. SHE did not see the "Not applicable" writing from his lawyer to understand
End result TO HER: she had a court order for child support.. and despite antlers words of supporting & loving his family.. his action were to NOT pay until there were contempt of court chargers brought.
I would be pissed too, but perhaps I am the only one.
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.
