I have a lawyer already.She wants to file for a dissolution as soon as she gets back with shared parenting. I bet she wants to move out too.As I stated filing for a divorce wouldn't help any way would it?She took all of the family savings on the vacation so I can't pay a lawyer to file for me right now.There wouldn't be any difference any way a dissolution might be cheaper for me in the long run.She just wants out.She is willing to walk away with nothing if she can get out fast.The only worry I have is she has been drinking alot and then she drives home sometimes with the youngest son.Lawyer says that there isn't too much I can do about it because the judge will say its all hearsay. anyway.This has all happened with in a 3 week period.Like I said I am stiil numb.