But what should my strategy be when I meet with her dad in an hour or so?

I want to tell him that I am 110% committed to saving the marriage and being the best husband I can for his daughter.

Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed