My Wife And Her Emotional Affair

[ken5140]

This may be considered pursuit, but I told W she was welcome to sleep in the bed if she wanted to and I would leave her alone (like I mostly have been for months now), but I didn't press the issue. After being rejected (again) I left the room and went to the bedroom so sit and I had tears in my eyes. Then she came in to talk and said, "I don't understand why you want to stay married to me. A couple of days ago, you were trying to kick me out." (I was filling out the TSO a couple of days ago.) Then she went off on my past mistakes again - how I didn't seem happy with her, how I was controlling, etc. I didn't argue with her - I just said, "I understand.".

She also told me that she and the OM agreed a few days ago to break off communication. (for like the fifth time - yea right). I said then we should change her cell number to avoid contact, and she started making excuses for why she can't do that. The OM is supposed to move in a month or so. My fear is that they will maintain contact after he leaves.