Great insight on X being a "romance junkie." Sorry that you had to see that now, but at least you have that clarity.
It would be funny to bet on how many commitment ceremonies before you are officially D'd, but let's not--that would be putting too much thought/energy into X, and not enough on lees.
And her lassies.
You are moving fast and well--keep your mind open to the insights and understandings as they come. They can hurt but they help with the healing.
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Me: 44 Him: 42 Together: 23 years; never married Bomb: August 1, 2009 Affair since May 2009 Walk away; no conversation; no process