Hey BBJ,

Hope you are feeling better. Read your post and the lyrics (all of them) to that song. I did not see in there that LOVE remembers what a$$holes our ex spouses were and in some cases still are...All the $hit we endured all the lies.....does LOVE remember that? Sorry, this is not about you per se.....I am getting a little frustrated I guess with what I have been reading recently. Maybe because it hits too close to home...I don't know. What I do know is when I hear one of those songs, you can bet that I am switching to another station....pronto. I don't like to dwell in it....I know I need to help myself (some may say I am hiding my emotions.....maybe). All I know is the life I had is finished.....done.....and I don't see why I have to bask in the past especially since it is so painful. I guess it is my way of coping. It is already hard enough with joint custody etc.
I guess what I am saying is WE have to help ourselves .... stop being the victim....our exes acted horribly and they don't deserve us.
Keep your chin up BBJ and turn off your phone once in a while and change the radio station...