Tomorrow I have the day off and I will be sorting out the D papers to mail off to the courts. I'm very hesitant to do it but she hasn't shown any signs to reconcile.

I saw the MC lastnight (by myself). We had a nice talk and I told her I was actually filing the paperwork because W hasn't taken any steps. I feel like I'm making this too easy for my W but I feel like I don't have a choice.

The MC was impressed with the steps I'm taking to move forward and take care of myself. The MC tried calling my wife last week to meet but W never called her back. The MC said she is showing real signs of depression from the stories I've been telling her. W will not talk to a C on her own so not sure how she can get the help she needs.

I've really detached myself from W the past few days. We now sleep in seperate bedrooms. Should I be hanging out with her and trying to be the fun guy I used to be? I'm not sure how to act right now, we still talk and it's not that uncomfortable being around each other.


M: 36
W: 29
S: 2.5
EA: 2/2010 OM1
D Bomb: 3/2010
PA: 6/2010 OM2
W moved out 8/2010
Loc: DE, USA