Ok, let's begin with her hip. We need to do another ultrasound in 4 weeks, but they're pretty confident she'll be fine. Goodo.
WH came to get his stuff. He asked me about the name, and it shat me. So I said, "And you, WH, who do you plan on living with when you return o/seas". And he said "OW. I love her, and she loves me". At which point I went crazy at him, and said "You knew this from Day 1, and you have deliberately drip fed me your intentions and plans to placate me, and taken advantage of my good faith in you to eventually do the right thing."
For the first time ever, my mother, who was home, intervened and told WH that she felt it would be best if he left the country now and got out of our lives.
This was very full-on for my mother, who always handles things with grace.
WH got half his stuff (the rest needed to be sorted & he'd not given enough warning for that) and left.
Send him an sms today saying I was devastated and what are we going to do since we clearly can't communicate at all anymore.
Receive an email tonight suggesting a "family law psychologist" mediate things from now on & how he is now afraid of how he can see the baby since things are now so bad between us.
Writes a few paragraphs about his job situation and how he now needs to look for work in Europe. NO MENTION THAT THE REASON HE IS GOING BACK TO SHACK UP WITH OW!!!!
It read like a 'legal' type of letter, although we have no 'fault laws' so don't know why he'd want to keep covering up his infidelity?!
G, you did well to backburn and seperate properly from your WH before the birth. This stuff is really getting to me....
