For me it is about saving my marriage, but I or we have to come out on the other side as a happy couple. I want my wife back, I do not want that life back. I am gaining to much respect for myself to go back there. If I can have a new life with my wife, then that is what i want. If the only way I can have my wife is to go back to the old life I had, then I will have to move on. Doesn't mean I don't love her and will not have a long road to recover from, but I've been unhappy for long enough.
H 38 W 34 M 7/98 Bomb 2/19/10 D 7 S 5 Still under same roof