Sweetie, I am sure had you realized the issues were detrimental, you would have changed them. Hindsight is 20/20.
Now you know better, so you'll do better.
Use the knowledge to propel you forward. I just don't want to see you do what I did for a long time. I owned my part and then some and felt terribly guilty about everything. But, at some point I had to forgive myself and my h or I would not have been able to continue the journey.
I dont know if we are friends elsewhere. I am Beginner's Mind.
