Just Confronted - A Litttle Confused

[Quicksilver264]

Well here is a summary of last night.

1) I did not OUTWARDLY panic. That was all on here away from her. Sorry bout that, but my emotions went wild internally.

2) She was FURIOUS with me, and her dad 110% supports the divorce. I think her mom does too.

3) She said the EA/cyber affair was NONE OF MY BUSINESS

4) "It happened in MY room within MY PRIVACY. Respect that NOW."

5) "I was going to REALLY give you an honest chance. My hear was searching for affection, and if you had waited and been patient, all that sex chat could have ended up being you"

5a) "You had the better chance of winning me over because you are HERE and we live together. You should have just let me satisfy my needs, and tried to win me over like you said you were. Like I said, eventually IT COULD HAVE BEEN YOU. NOW YOU HAVE NO CHANCE WITH ME. WE ARE DONE FOREVER".

And here is what she says that I think is most important:

6) "I saw myself as divorced in the beginning of May. I just didn't tell you because I didn't want to hurt you. I'm not saying it's right, but that's how I saw it. So when people approached me, I felt good. I wasn't getting anything from you, and in my mind things were OVER".

7) She lied about all the EA/sex chat/pictures to "spare me the pain". But she again reiterated it was NONE of my business that it happened. She thinks of herself as completely single now, and its not OK for me to care what she does.

8) She LIED to her parents faces yesterday about the affairs, EVEN THOUGH THEY ALREADY KNEW, and they still told her to go through with the Divorce.