Sometimes saying no only makes the man more determined and more likely to try to be her Knight in Shining Armor (you said she wasn't doing well before he becamse her mentor?) Could he actually be chasing after a woman who is really, in fact, using him? It could even be that she's a "nice girl" who feels trapped and knows she's leaving soon. Not SURE this is the case, of course, but thinking back on my life and the lives of some of my friends over the years at university and in the Pentagon... This sort of thing DOES happen.
I know for a FACT she's using him (proof in a moment), but he refuses to see it. She is NOT a nice girl - she's a self-absorbed little b*tch who steam rolls over anyone who gets in her way. I sent her a nasty email in March. Did she die of embarrassment and apologize? No! She had me arrested for harassment! What kind of 20-something even THINKS to do that?!
Originally Posted By: MarieC
If so, he's going to be pretty upset when she backs way off after graduation to get away from him when she doesn't need him anymore.
My lawyer sent me a copy of the police report. In it, she said that my WH wants their relationship to be physical, but she has "kept it professional" (while still accepting the lingerie and underwear WH sent her from Victoria's Secret, mind you). She also said point-blank that she has NO plans for a relationship with WH regardless of his marital status.
I haven't shown him that report. I think he'll either accuse me of forging it or bend over backwards to change her mind. Once this is all over and done with, though, I may show it to him and say, "See?! I TOLD YOU SO!!!!" (I know - not nice. But I'm not feeling particularly magnanimous at the moment...)
