Oh wow... when the counselor told me about the subconscious dad psychology thing, I brushed it aside thinking 'yeah right, you're just saying that cos I just told you the facts about my stitch'.
We all carry some sort of a baggage from our past I guess, I'm guilty of mine. It's good to know what they are bc we can do something about it then. And I'm sure our parents did their best to provide us.
>if I had been offered the same chance that you gave your H that I would have reacted differently, but I guess I'll never know
It's nice of you to say this B, I was starting to think does everyone see things like my H, was I that bad in feeling the way I did.
My H's parents argued all his life so he strongly believes that M should be an eternal bliss. His mantra was 'when you find the right person there is no need to put in so much effort in R'. It doesn't help that he's surrounded by much younger mates who are mostly single and with similar belief... which is another reason I'm thinking of dropping the rope altogether.
I'm blessed to have parents who are still happily together after so many years of M, who show me what is in store for you when you work through it.
