Completely Blindsided

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I'm definitely trying hard on the GAL front. There are the loads of dance classes, plus a whole new cadre of mates hanging around. I would normally be very happy to stay at home on my own and do some work/find some entertainment, but now being alone doesn't sit well with me, so I head out as much as possible, actively calling people and making a nuisance of myself

Yeah, your sitch is diffinitely different... I want to say that if I had been offered the same chance that you gave your H that I would have reacted differently, but I guess I'll never know.

But yeah, I know what you mean, you can't convince someone who already believes they are right.

You've hit the nail on the head with my father though. He always did, and still does have very negative views on people. I even had words with him two days ago about writing people off from the slightest impication that they may THINK about doing something he wouldn't like. It's a very negative attitude, and it's something I need to do about within myself.

I'm definitely all for making the most out of the opportunities afforded with this... I may not want the sitch, but I still want my life