Kimmie- you are right-most of the marriages won't succeed on this site- we are all here because our spouses want to leave us and divorce us! So the odds are against us to start with! But I keep seeing so many people who expect quick turn arounds, who keep doing what doesn't work despite what they are told(ummm I am/was guilty too)and who sabotage their efforts by giving into anger and desperation.

I think this site should be called BustingFearofDivorce!

and I really can't wait to hear back from Greek about how Coach acted during the 3 months she left to get her back so quick!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004