BD good job floating! Just remember to keep doing a good job of not bringing up the relationship! Now your H says he is not sure what he wants when awhile back he was giving you D papers? I see that as progress (in his mental clarity, lol!)
I think in your case, since there is not an OW, this pressure free connecting that is going on (AS LONG AS IT DOESN'T PAIN YOU!) is probably good for your future. Have you re-read Divorce Remedy in awhile? I don't know what part applies but I think I remember something about sharing time together in a pressure free way. Of course there are improvements that are done on your part as well...
Just wondering-sorry if you told us but I forgot if you did- what complaints did your H have about the marriage?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004