Why isn't his IC reccomending him to family therapist?
What kind of IC gives a patient a mediation reference before reccomending family therapy?
God I hate personal therapists.. they are all idiots.
I have said this about his IC all along, but of course he loves her. Ugh.
Originally Posted By: Allen A
What you need EC is a script...
Put a good solid script of statements together, you only need half a dozen...
memorize them... ever done any theatre in high school?
Memorize the statements, put them on an index card and keep them in your pocket...when HE pushes a convo... YOU don't.. HE does.. You slip your hand in your pocket hold onto the card and recite the line that you need.. its not that hard really...
Love this. I did a lot of theatre in high school and college. And this would be a good approach for me. Actually, I have taken some of the statements you've listed and used them today and they helped me get through some hard conversations. I'll see if I can do this before the next time I might have to use it.
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