EC.... You are doing well... But yes, you need to handle him emotionally at least like a parent... he's not acting like an adult right now... Your choice?
a. Chat on facebook like a twelve year old slinging mud b. Speak up for your marriage to friends and family and ask for support to encourage H to end his affair
you can be an adult, or you can be a child... its your choice
I am not telling you to patronize your husband or yell or anything like that, I am telling you to DETACH EMOTIONALLY like a PARENT can with their child
When a CHILD yells at their parents when they get grounded the parent doens't YELL BACK do they? Do they try to negotiate with a child throwing a tantrum and lying to them?
No
They bring consequences down on them and SHUT THEM OUT for a while...
If you were more dignified on facebook I would have suggested you print THAT up and post it at the university for her students to read, but if the facebook log just looks like two 13 year old girls fighting over some high school quarterback then its not going to help you at all...
YOu need to set an example here... YOur H isn't pursuing divorce actively... he gave YOU the number becuase HE"s afraid to CALL... get it?
Your husband is afraid of divorce and wants YOU to cut the cord FOR HIM so HE can say YOU divorced HIM and play VICTIM to everyone... got it?
