Should I call her dad and ask for an HONEST talk - man to man?

Tell him what is on my mind and try to set the record straight?

I talked to her mom who did not seem happy, so I don't want to make things worse.

Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed