Originally Posted By: antlers
charges against me for failure to pay child support, I got something in the mail last Feb. telling me that I was supposed to start paying the previous November!

Hard to get my brain around the hatred that she has for me.


Really??

To her.. you were ordered to pay child support over 6 months ago with no action on your part to follow through or on your attorney's part to indicate you would contest it.

To her.. you have been shirking your duty as a father/provider, despite your words during this 6 month time.

While I understand you didn't understand the initial order and your lawyer appears to have dropped the ball on explaining it to you... try seeing it from her perspective.

And now, that you have been 'forced' to pay (from her perspective with the contempt charges)... you apparently can come up with the cash all at once...

I can understand why she would be at least irritated with the situation and your actions.

I say this not to poke at you.. but to give you some perspective... because I know you are open to it smile

Peace
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