I'm really sorry antlers...I can completely understand how you feel. My STBXW is doing some crazy stuff too. In fact, I just got done writing her temp support payments and it pisses me off to no end that she even complained to her attorney that I didn't give her the money from last year's tax return. Hello!!!! you were unemployed the WHOLE year!!...you didn't pay any taxes but you want half of my tax return too? The really f'd up part about is that financially she's always been irresponsible whether she made $40k/yr or $80k/yr and I always saved money for the rainly day (retirement, vacations etc) and still bailed her out most of the time. And now I gotta give her half of every thing I saved on top of the ridiculous alimony+cs because she's making next to nothing. It's such a sore topic for me.

I'm sorry she's turned into a witch for you. Hang in there, you sound like an honest, caring guy...don't let her take that away from you.


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again