Nope, she likley lied to them... straighten it out and stand strong...
A lot of people support divorce early on because they simply think it will take the hurt away.
It doesn't.
You just need to talk and get the truth out there. When you tell them you are protecting their daughter and your home and your family it will sound much more sensible than the way she likely presented it...
this is a reverse exposure... you expose so she runs damage control... don't trust her say so... get the truth out there and hold onto your composure here.
This. ^
But QS, even with that said, are you going to post the same thing EVERY TIME YOU FACE A SETBACK???
"OMG, is this it? Is it OVER??? Did I TOTALLY BLOW IT???"
Dude,you need to RELAX. You have ZERO CHANCE with this mindset, I'm just telling you. PLease take a look at the # of my posts, and how long I've been here, and listen again: YOU ... HAVE ... ZERO ... CHANCE if you don't CHILL.
No they support the divorce because they saw how her and I didn't mesh well sometimes.
Her dad is mad at the times I was a jerk to her.
AND she is filing for divorce Friday, and NOT in 10 days.
She is HELLBENT on going through with this.
I told her parents about the affairs YESTERDAY, and they BOTH told her TODAY that they are 110% behind her. She LIED to their faces today about the affairs, and they still told her to go through with the Divorce.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
Man QS, you sounded so confident and together a few days ago, you had this in your pocket you were so together... you fell apart today and are going to HER for INFO?
Man oh Man... I hope you aren't going to HER for your facts...
She doesn't usually lie about what her parents say. I talked to her mom tonight and she MOST DEFINITELY sounded VERY different.
Like she was disappointed with me and didn't want to talk with me. Like she knew this whole thing was about to be blown open. Like I was the one in the wrong.
And she listed SPECIFIC things her dad said that he was disappointed with me about over the years of our marriage.
She was VERY specific about all this, and she quite ENJOYED telling me all this. Like she wanted to seriously hurt me.
She's DEFINITELY not lying. She just messaged THREE different people and told them (in slightly different ways) that her dad is 110% behind her in the divorce. So she appears not to be lying.
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Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
Yup.. QS they all do a reverse exposure... you think she's just going to sit there and not run damage control?
That's all this is... you tell the TRUTH and speak up for marriage and you are gold.
Your wife likley painted you out as a monster to them.. they ALL do that.. you just set the facts straight...
Tell the truth and stick to the facts... if you walk in there terrified like you write here you are TOAST... you walk in there like a calm loving son in law and tell the truth
