I hope that before you would even think of reconsiling you would want to get to a solid place for yourself. You are both 2 emotional wrecks right now and anything that would resemble getting back together wouldn't work. I mean wouldn't you want to get back together with someone because they wanted you versus thought of you as a way to feel better?
Hang in there, kat
My priority for myself is to get consistantly on my feet. Yeah I agree. I guess I'd extend that to any relationship.
Originally Posted By: whatisis
Just out of interest, what did you phone wife for? Does she actually comfort you in some way? I'm guessing not but what did you want from that interaction?
Because I'm a big baby and and still need to make myself handle my own s#!t. I was down this morning, thinking about a variety of things, and it was - what - habit? That's not quite right. yeah, I wanted some sort of comfort, sure. Does she? Sometimes. This morning, not really. And that's fine.
She did call tonight and invited me to dinner with her and the boys. Haven't done that for awhile, and first time since the papers were signed. It was nice.
