H's position has been that he is not in love with me anymore and thinks that because he tried to communicate to me last spring and summer that we were having problems that he has "tried everything" he can and thinks divorce is better than living with someone he cares about but doesn't love.
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Well, I had a conversation with my H today. He declares that he is DONE and that he has felt like we haven't been together for four (MONTHS) or so. Hmmm... that's not the way I remember things. He says all he hopes for now is that I can be civil to him, and we can agree to divorce. The OW has "nothing to do with it."
This is ABSOLUTELY my story to a *T*. She "tried" to communicate that she wasn't happy a few times, so she has "tried everything". Now she is hellbent on getting a divorce to "make her happy again".
I am so, so, sorry you have to go through this.
Last edited by Quicksilver264; 06/10/1002:23 AM.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed