So sorry Mila....I have followed a D/B'er and just to let you know the SOULMATE that her husband left her for lasted a couple of yrs......and the SOULMATES are no longer together OMG they loved each other so much but in the end it all died a slow death.....karma baby karma....one day this will be your husband and mine.....but WE might not be there for them. maybe this might just help your pain.......