QS, you sound like a planner... In THIS case, its not a good thing.. you need to sit back to wait to see what happens...
This is the "in the oven" part where you watch what you put together bake...
You need to just let the exposure run its course (keep pushing it by keeping in contact with friends and family.. some will even ask outright what's going on...). Your wife has a lot to absorb
1. Financial hardship 2. Abandonment by her OM 3. A spouse that does NOT want to divorce her cheating ass (WTF?) 4. Legal costs and uncertainty 5. Living arrangements
Your wife needs time to process these impacts.. its been what two days of exposure here?
It takes WEEKs for that to sink in... Right now she's half baked in bio chem madness from her last session as puppy pointed out... She's still jacked up and full of confidence...
You keep exposin and show a STRONG FRONT.. and lets hope to god you are a good poker player... do NOT show ANY sign of weakness... show
Your wife will exploit all of that crap... this is a poker game.. once she realizes you aren't folding and her hand ain't as good as she thinks it is, she will very likley back down...
The reality takes weeks to sink in.. WEEKS, not days, WEEKS
This is assuming these OM steer clear of her... which is assuming a LOT of someone who was just days ago planning on mounting your wife behind your back...
Sorry, but I don't trust these creeps promises to stay away, they often don't (big surprise) live up to their promises... They are just a bunch of overgrown high school sleazeballs on the make...
Are we now saying that these affair chemicals would be similar to the brain chemicals that a "successful" criminal may have? pretty scary.
