Originally Posted By: sandi2

Well most WAW's in an A would more than likely tell you that it would snow in hell before she would love you again. But, don't jump in the air and click your heels just yet b/c it could have meant something else. It's just rare that a LBH is told that.


No, I'm not jumping for joy. My interpretation based on her actions is "you can woo me all you want but right now I have OM to meet all my emotional needs...you(me) are last on my priority list". WW wants us to "live as friends in peace and see where life takes us"..."I have to like you again before I can love you again".
Originally Posted By: sandi2

The excuse of saying OM is a "friend" is really getting worn out these days.


Agree...especially when you TM each other in the middle of the night.

Originally Posted By: sandi2

I think you may be getting the idea how to handle some of these demands she makes on you. Just need some more practice.


The one I'm anticipating very quickly is "what's with the new attitude" something along those lines.

Originally Posted By: sandi2

Think about these things that she might try in the future so you'll have something prepared to say....and it won't catch you off guard. Remember that she needs to have a taste of what her life would be if you weren't around.


Again, I agree...when I stayed with family last month and only one DD was at home with WW (other DD stayed with me) she asked me to come back after four nights.


M-43
FWW-42
T 20
M 16
DD10
DD8
EA: 1/10
Informal separation: 6/11/2010
Headed for D: 7/6/2010
Piecing? 9/10/10