I was just wondering, Ive read thread after thread of very similar stories as mine. Basically one spouse wants out of the M, the other desperately wants to save the M. For the one that wants to save the M, its just an awful rollercoaster ride - but Im not really finding any stories where a M was saved, or I am missing them -
Its seems like you just have to accept what is happening and deal with it, as time goes on, I am really losing hope. It just seems to me the writing is on the wall so to speak and a D is just the inevitable. I know that goes against the entire purpose of DBing ...I'm curious to know.
Ok, for all the sugar-coating and tap-dancing around the facts, the absolute truth is that most of these marriages will not be saved.
I know it hurts, I know it sucks, and I know that I will be shredded here for "being negative" just because I am speaking the truth.
That being said, your best chance of being one of the few success stories depends upon actually using the great advice you will be offered by the following posters: Puppy, Gucci, robx, and Coach. There are others too, Allen in Infidelity being one who I admire greatly.
