You can always have a consultation with an attorney if that will calm you down. You can provide the basic outline of the situation, tell them you don't want a divorce but think you may have no choice in the matter, and then they can tell you what steps need to be taken and when.
A little knowledge can't hurt things. Right now emotions are high.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
