mrbt, you've been on my mind, and I am glad to have an update on your situation. As I was reading, I was hopeful, only to be so sad to read what came after the hopeful part.
I am stunned.
I'm so disappointed in your wife, and I'm disappointed that she was unable to uphold the promises she made.
I have enjoyed communicating with you on this site, and I think a lot of you. I hope what I say won't make you angry, but I respect you very much and don't like to see you treated this way. Having said that, I will now say this--I know that she's not well, but she doesn't deserve you.
I'm so sorry that this has happened. What do you think you'll do next?