Thanks Cat - you sound as if you have reached a peaceful point - I don't mean to pry but how long did it take you to reach this point?
Many of the issues regarding who I am besides mother, etc. - would be happening, I believe, whether my marriage was in place or not. I have to work through this!
M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years Ds-24,22/S-18 D - 3/11 A Day at a Time