I think I'm laying off for a few days now and am trying not to react to any "off-handed" comments he makes. I'm just living my life at the moment, going about my day pretending nothing's wrong. I feel like I need to re-group and at this point that is the only way I know how. If anybody has any suggestions I'd love to here them.
If you want him to think you are OK with his actions then yes, smile and act like life is good... that's what he's gonig to think... that you are OK with his CHEATING.. that's not what you want him to THINK is it? Then why act in a way that conveys that to him?
He likley feels guilty.. So WORK On that by showing him you are hurt, frustrated, and determined to protect your family
Don't beg or plead or negotiate, just show him you resist his choices by not talking to him, not engaging him, not arguing with him... shut the door on him emotionally
Distance yourself from him so he gets the idea that he's in the doghouse... your ACTIONS should be speaking for you here...
If he says something nice, ignore it, if he tries to help with your daughter, refuse and tell him you don't want his help, etc... Men KNOW when their wives are pissed at them... women are VERY good at letting them know that without saying a word
What actions has your H taken to pursue divorce?
Have you done any legal research with an attourney yet to find out YOUR rights right now?
