Mr Bond

I ordered both books but couldn't wait so went to bookstore yesterday and bought DBing. Have read half of it already but to be honest I'm losing momentum.

I know people have been going through this for months if not years - I don't know how you get thru it!

I can no longer think about this - in my mind he's made his choice and quite frankly I'm scared to do anything cause it might be the wrong thing. You know? We never had a relationship like this so I'm not even sure how to be anymore.

I really just want to give up and move on...seems it will be less painful than what I'm experiencing now.

A male perspective is appreciated....do men come around? Should I be hopeful for a possible R?