My H himself has said that he thinks he may have an avoidant personality disorder. So, trust me when I say, I get the no responses. Ah, good times....not.
All you can do right now, is focus on you. Whether or not you see him as doing anything, he really is. Cat is spot on with that. Now, it's your turn. We all know how hard that is for you right now. You just need to trust that you can do it in small steps.
Patience is incredibly hard and takes lots of practice. You can do this if you choose to.
Think patience all around and if you're not sure if you should say something you want to say....don't.
