I hope that before you would even think of reconsiling you would want to get to a solid place for yourself. You are both 2 emotional wrecks right now and anything that would resemble getting back together wouldn't work. I mean wouldn't you want to get back together with someone because they wanted you versus thought of you as a way to feel better?
Hang in there, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory