Lets keep in mind also that she slipped last week during one of our first sessions and blurted out " I don't have YOU !" When I mentioned the fact that her current arrangement gave her everything she wanted that I wasn't giving her. Emotional Support, housing that was paid for, attentiveness , etc. Even the counselor told me in private that was REAL. She didn't intend for me to hear it, at least not then, but it was genuine in the counselors assessment of her body language, facial expression after she realized what she had said, tone of voice , etc.