Took several weeks to myself, enjoyed time w/ the family.
Spoke w/ L- recommended that we seek mediation. W is back and forth about it...looking for everything she's entitled to- fortunately not much.
It's a lose - lose like all D's...pretty much waiting for her to file and do mediation at the court's request, as W is not looking to do so voluntarily.
Feeling very good and VERY detached...w/ is VERY angry, I can't fully understand nor do I wish to...it's not about her.