That's all fine and good but you still didn't answer the question.
"Have you ever just straight up asked her why she hasn't D her H?"
This seems to be the part that you always seem to gloss over.
"I am NOT the OM in her mind, 110 % CERTAIN about that, end of story.
Okay. So why didn't she D her H? Also, if you are that strong in believing this, why did you mention in your earlier posts that she was planning to take primary custody of your kids so that she could have a nice happy family with her H?
I think you need to reread some of your posts. That's why it sounds like you are either contradicting yourself or trying to convince yourself of something. That's just the way I read it. IMHO.
Answered in follow up posts Bond. As to my FEAR about what she may have been planning ? If you look at the dates, and I could be mistaken, that was still in the initial stages of shock and muddy thinking and my mind running wild with the most horrible of possible outcomes. It was ONE possible scenario, that made sense at the time, with emotions all over the place. What can I say ??????? Could that STILL be the eventual end result ? Anything is possible.
