My sitch continued, not sure why original thread

[MrBond]

That's all fine and good but you still didn't answer the question.

"Have you ever just straight up asked her why she hasn't D her H?"

This seems to be the part that you always seem to gloss over.

"I am NOT the OM in her mind, 110 % CERTAIN about that, end of story.

Okay. So why didn't she D her H? Also, if you are that strong in believing this, why did you mention in your earlier posts that she was planning to take primary custody of your kids so that she could have a nice happy family with her H?

I think you need to reread some of your posts. That's why it sounds like you are either contradicting yourself or trying to convince yourself of something. That's just the way I read it. IMHO.