yeah, I see that now, I had read to her from the first chapter of Divorce Remedy, it was just that some of the things she said were word for word in the first few paragraphs, and I'd hoped that it would resonate with her. Plus I know she talks to her mother about this and I was also hoping to let her see that the 'advice' her mom may be giving to her was most likely one sided.
She actually seemed interested, and thanked me for sharing it with her. I could tell it actually made her stop and think that day.
Ive completely backed off any pressure on her, but it just feel like the more 'space' I give her, the more distant she gets from me.
What really sucks is my W was always there for me when I was down, or needed a hug etc, and now I hurt like crazy, and she cringes now at even the thought of hugging me...and man does that hurt!
Me 44 H 39 Met in 1998 Married in 2004 D 5, twins Bomb - May 16th, 2010
"Don't let Tomorrow or Yesterday get in the way of Today"
