I am new to your stitch but I just want to encourage you to stay strong. I too have gone through the paycheck being taken away and I think my H is just pushing buttons as well so that I will file, not fair when it is not what we want, but staying strong for the kids and doing what is right for you is more important.
Take care of yourself.
m-34 w-33 d-15 s-10 m-11 years t-16 years bomb - Feb 24/10