Confused and looking for advice

[hockeymom12]

I wonder when H will realize that he is the one initiating contact with me all the time and what he would do if I just stopped answering. Maybe I should try it. Last night I asked my D15 to get H's credit card number as I needed to order something for her. He then called me to ask if he could get it to me today, I said sure just email it to me, to which he replied while call me in the morning and I will email it to you then. Why did I need to call him, the only reason would be to have contact. So I did not I just emailed him and asked for it, not 5 minutes later he called to ask how S10 was as he was ill yesterday. I am maintaining contact with him as this is what my coach suggests but I think I am going to start being selective on when I answer.

I just opened my own bank account, sent my lawyer a deposit and here we go I guess, I just did not appreciate being threatened on Monday with my stuff being thrown out of the house if I do not allow him to spend weekends with the kids while I stay somewhere else. Why does he not realize that these are the consequences of him leaving and that I am not being vindictive or stubborn, I just do not see why I have to be put out to make his life better.