MrBond, What am I saying or doing that comes across as immature?
Greek, that was the only night that I called her so that my daughter could talk with her. She was having a rather difficult time lastnight. I can see your POV on how it could be perceived. The previous nights have been the "hmm wonder why I havent heard from them". I dont feel its my responsibility to make sure she says good night or keeps in contact.
Our daughter has never spent more than a single day away from either of us up until this last week. So now her brothers and mother are both missing all of a sudden.