My sitch continued, not sure why original thread

[MrBond]

I think you're glossing over the fact that your W has some pretty big issues. I mean, I seriously doubt that she is holding a grudge about your non-proposal when she's, in fact, still M.

Was any of that addressed? Have you ever just straight up asked her why she hasn't D her H? I mean as it stands, she might still be seeing you as the OM.