Robx, since yours was the last post I'll answer here.
NO , NEVER ANY AFFAIRS of ANY kind on my part, not cyber, not EA , not PA , NOTHING !!! The only thing even remotely close was WAY back in 1997. I went on an annual trip with the guys to Myrtle Beach. We had a party in our condo and someone snapped a pic of me sitting on the couch with a girl, NOTHING amorous about it. Wife found the pic like a year or more later and blew it up into " proof " of my having cheated, but it was discussed and resolved in short order and she's never mentioned it again.
She's already said she DOESNT " hate me " to use your words.
She DOES hate the fact that I filed for custody of the kids, knowing that she had lost custody of her first two and that I knew that would send her over the edge so to speak. That and my boneheaded, bungling, making a joke about getting married "proposal" that she took and swears was my real proposal to her are the to biggest issues for her right now. Plus feeling like I didnt "put her first" while she did that for me.
I've NEVER claimed to be an innocent victim in all of this, she DEFINITELY has several valid points to be upset with me about. She also has her own issue's she has brought to the table, and she admitted as much.
The bungled non proposal proposal was the breaking point for her. After waiting and hoping for nearly 14 years for me to say it and say it the " right way " She says that is what broke her heart
