Just Confronted - A Litttle Confused

[MrBond]

Whatever your W is telling you is what's in her head. All the stuff about her saying that she hasn't loved you in a looong time, that she loves you but isn't 'in love' with you, etc. That's all been said to the LBS in one way or another.

You've done the exposure, tried to end the A, etc. Now the thing is to wade through all the BS that she accused you of and see what valid points she may have about the M if any.

There is no definite script where if you act one way, they will act a certain way. Not everyone who exposed were able to get back together. It depends on your own sitch and personalities.

What was something that your W had a gripe about you that was an actual valid point? Start doing something positive now. Or you may think that a positive action is to "move on". It's up to you.