Just received a email from my Atty. He said that her attorney contacted him a week ago and advised that he planned to file a petition for divorce, however her attorney also stated that she still owed him money for all the appearances he has made, and also will not be providing any further action on her behalf until the previous bills are paid and she provides a retainer of 750.00 dollars for a divorce petition, my ATTY said that means she is not paying the bills as i should have had papers 1-2 weeks ago.
Now this brings up something very interesting, because I know my WAW can not afford this unless her boss would or possible OM would give her prob close to 1000.00 for current bills and another 750.00 for divorce proceedings.
It seems now that she can not afford this. I suppose it gives me a true advantage in the divorce case if it comes to that, as we have a likely 2 more court appearances ahead in family court over the cps crap, and that is another 200.00 hr for the attorney.
If it goes all the way, i feel pretty good about my chances for sure with her prior record, and arrest etc... However my goals remains unchanged.
I want full custody of my daughter or WAW to drop the divorce and work on our marriage with getting help for herself and to be a family again.
I also had heard, she was in the hospital recently and the bosses family she is staying with did not believe her and she called a ambulance.
She had some sort of serious infection and has been sick. More bills are piling up and she is hitting rock bottom, I just hope this OM doesn't have money and think he is some kind of super hero. He likely is not, but If he was she would probably be using him.
Thoughts? Comments? Questions?
Last edited by knightinneed; 06/09/1007:25 PM.
M 36 W 29 Together 2 1/2 years married 14 months Daughter 15 months Bomb 4/22/10 Separated since 4/25/10 OM 6/10/10 Hopeful, but moving on
