success stories? saved marriages?

[lostnhurt]

I was just wondering, Ive read thread after thread of very similar stories as mine. Basically one spouse wants out of the M, the other desperately wants to save the M. For the one that wants to save the M, its just an awful rollercoaster ride - but Im not really finding any stories where a M was saved, or I am missing them -

Its seems like you just have to accept what is happening and deal with it, as time goes on, I am really losing hope. It just seems to me the writing is on the wall so to speak and a D is just the inevitable. I know that goes against the entire purpose of DBing ...I'm curious to know.