Pretty much everybody I can talk to knows now what is going on, not all the details but enough to know that I am not choosing divorce, he is, and H is involved with another woman. I think I'm laying off for a few days now and am trying not to react to any "off-handed" comments he makes. I'm just living my life at the moment, going about my day pretending nothing's wrong. I feel like I need to re-group and at this point that is the only way I know how. If anybody has any suggestions I'd love to here them.

I don't think I should show up at the university to expose OW there. I don't think it will accomplish anything in this instance except get me in trouble with security and anger her enough to probably talk to police. She's like that.

Me 32, H 34, DD 3
M 6, T 8
Bomb 03/10
OW Bomb 6/5/10
Separate & NC 6/28/10
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