I gave up...filed for D

[angierenee]

I am sorry to hear that this is happening also. I am gong through a similar situation and I just keep telling myself that it is ok to let go and take care of myself and my daughter.

Something I also did (this morning actually) was write down all the things that I need in a marriage, when I did this and I realized that my husband was unable to provide me with any of them, it made me feel a little better that separating was the right thing to do.

The tough times can only make us stronger in the future.

I haven't filed papers yet, but will be doing so when I can get the money because like you my H is not helping me financially with my daughter and it is so hard and the only way to get him to help me is through divorce and a lawyer. I just need to find the money to do this. I had to take my daughter to the dentist and the bill was $1100, because we dont have insurance. When I asked my H for help, he just shook his head and said, 'it's her baby teeth they will fall out. I didnt want you to take her so I'm not helping'.

It sucks and it hurts!

I'll be praying for you! Hugs! I hope this helped, I'm not one to really be giving advice I have already messed so many things up, I just wanted to let you know that I understand how you feel. And my heart goes out to you